I am in a tough situation with my matron of honor. She is my best friend, and I was her maid of honor. Now it’s her turn to fill that role for me. She is really impossible to make plans with but we finally were able to both be free to do my dress shopping. She had plans in the evening, but now all of the sudden she doesn’t. I just found out she made other wedding dress shopping plans with another bride who she isn’t her matron of honor. I was confused and told her I didn’t mind if she left right after I was done. I back tracked from what I said because my mother mentioned we’d be going out to dinner to celebrate. My MOH doesn’t see why I’m upset that she won’t be there even when I told her I was hurt that she was going to leave and not be by my side when we go celebrate. We’ve had these dress plans for months. After I explained how I felt she became defensive and I made her feel like the worst MOH ever. So I just need advice…. Am I wrong for being upset that she made separate plans on the day for my wedding dress shopping? She wants to please both, but she’s my matron of honor and I feel like that is more important than being a bridesmaid.